This article ... I am putting here after a long time and it's specially for my loved one.... DO READ !!!!
If you can learn to love yourself and all the flaws...you can love other people so much better.....And that makes you so happy.-Kristin Chenoweth
If you don’t love yourself enough how can u expect others to love or respect you?
The famous dialogue from one of everyone’s favorite movie JAB WE MET “MAI MERI FAVOURITE HU” by super stunning Kareena was just a dialog but one of the mantras for happy life.
When a person one loves oneself he or she will never take anything related for granted. It may career health or anything actually. If you love yourself enough you will always make everything related to your work or routine more interesting.
One will infuse life in every task undertaken, as the ultimate aim is self-happiness. One will be more serious about health, get more consistent towards everything which results in one’s own betterment. However, people often mix it up with being selfish.
If you are happy, you can give happiness. If you don't love yourself and if you are unhappy with yourself, you can't give anything else but only unhappiness. Nothing is more important than a healthy sense of self-pride and loving yourself.
When you love yourself more, things simply become lighter and easier. You won’t make mountains out of molehills or give inane excuses. Or beat yourself up or drag yourself down over mistakes and temporary setbacks
You’ll have more inner stability. It is imperative that you don’t accept others definition of your life, but define yourself. When your opinion of yourself goes up then you’ll stop trying to get so much validation and attention from other people.
You become less needy and find an inner stability even when your world might be negative or uncertain at times. The increasing self-esteem and self-love also makes you feel more deserving of good things in life and so you’ll self-sabotage less and go after what you deep down want with more motivation and focus than ever before.
You’ll be happier, I assure you... Life becomes simpler. Until you value yourself, you won’t value your time. Until you value your time, you will not do anything productive with it.
Self-love can just make anything frustrating into more interesting. So always remember to take care of yourself. Sometimes we get so busy taking care of others that we forget that we are important, because love begins with you…!
"Matlabi....ho ja jara matlabi.......duniya ki sunta hey kyu....khud ki bhi sun le kabhi....."
LOVE YOURSELF!
Loving oneself leads to positivity in thought
First stand up for your own self rather than expecting others to stand up for you
We become self-sufficient when we address our own concerns and deal with them
